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Friday, October 18, 2013
10 ways to know you are a SEX ADDICT
Sex
addicts don’t believe in emotional connections. The only thing they
want is a person who will help them in fulfilling their urge for sex.
They usually tend to remember their sex partners only up till sex.
1. You have secret sex livesWe are not talking about hiding your carrying out normal day to day activity in secrecy. We are talking about cheating your partner and living two or more lives. The different lives could be – a normal life with your partner and the second could be secretly visiting strip clubs or hiding while watching pornography. The point here is, if you have a secret sex life, in spite of being in a relationship, then it’s time to raise the red flag.
2. Compulsive masturbation
Masturbating once or twice a week to get sexual pleasure is good and healthy. But what about masturbating even though you are aware that the act will make you late for school or work? Sex addicts are always preoccupied with the thought of having sex all the time and to overcome this they may frequently masturbate to get pleasure. Compulsive masturbation can happen to a sex addict at any point of time, theaters, workplace or while travelling. As the urge progresses, it may become increasingly destructive and vicious which will ultimately lead to sadism or suicidal ideas.
3. Porn addiction
We don’t mean watching porn with your partner when you try to heighten sexual pleasure. Pornaddiction in sex addicts is a different story altogether. Sex addicts can view pornography right in between of a meeting, just to fulfill their sexual urge. This addiction can interfere drastically in an individual’s personal and professional life.
4. Your relationships only last till the first sexual encounter
Sex addicts don’t believe in emotional connections. The only thing they want is a person who will help them in fulfilling their urge for sex. They usually tend to remember their sex partners only up till sex. And want to get away from their sex partners right after sex.
5. The only thing on your mind, all the time, is sex
Sex addicts have a difficult time focusing on any thing other than sex. This is why habits like porn addiction, excessive masturbation, one night stands and deviant sexual habits set in and become part of everyday life.
6. You want many
You are happily married, your partner supports you, but you always sneak out to others for sex. You are not satisfied with one sex partner, but you want many. In spite of being aware of the problems, you go away and have sex with strangers just to feel happy and pleasurable. This is an alarming part of a sex addicts life.
7. Do not care about the consequences
You see a certain dangerous sex act or position somewhere and you can’t wait to try it out by yourself. Sex addicts don’t care about the outcome of certain sex position. Sex addicts are ready to put their life as well as the life of others in danger to carry out sexual behavior.
8. You are a voyeur
Sex addicts receive sexual gratification when they see someone naked or witness others participating in sexual behavior. Dr. Vihang says, “Just to see someone naked, sex addicts can go to any point, they can climb pillars. In spite of being aware that their act will get them arrested, they will continue their act of stalking others.”
9. You neglect important tasks
Just to enjoy the pursuit of sex you are ready to neglect your day-to-day important activities. When you are in the flow, you do not care about your job, work or the safety of others.
10. Sex is a source of happiness
Similar to the way alcoholics and drug addicts hold on to their substance abuse, a sex addict uses sex to cope with his or her problems. He feels immense joy after performing a sexual act. A sex addict uses sexual behavior as a weapon to combat pain, distress and agony.
Thursday, October 10, 2013
Osita ‘Paw-Paw’ Iheme Now Rotary Ambassador
Osita Iheme, the Nollywood actor better known as ‘Paw-Paw, may be a pint-sized man but what he lacks in height, he has made up for in greatness.
The star of many Nigerian movies who is a recipient of national honour of Member of the Federal Republic, MFR, has now been made an Ambassador of ‘The New Generation’ by Rotary International.
The Imo State, Nigeria, born ‘small man’ got decorated at a Rotary International event which was held at the National Theatre in Lagos.
Iyanya Will Not End Well Yvonne Nelson
It is apparent that Ghanaian star actress, Yvonne Nelson, is still very bitter over her split with Nigerian singer, Iyanya Mbuk. The Nollywood actress is not in a hurry to forgive the ‘Kukere’ crooner for hurting her after she spent over 8 months of her life dating him, giving him her ‘waist’ and love. She is angry that after all she did for him, Iyanya still had the heart to leave her. The distraught Yvonne further said that her ex-lover will not end well if he continues breaking ladies’ hearts.
“Iyanya needs to be more honest and be a man of his words. It’s not good if he keeps taking advantage of women. My mum always says any man who takes advantage of women won’t end up well. It’s called Karma; it’s going to come back to you. He will not end well,” the heart-broken Yvonne said. She further advised the ‘Your Waist’ singer to “treat women fairly and be an honest person.”
Sunday, October 6, 2013
7 worst type of relationships that are best avoided
This is the type of relationship that could be happy, but there really is no independence in their relationship at all
The very first relationships that are best avoided is the take, take, take relationship. This relationship is full of nothing but taking! Either your partner is constantly taking from you or you are constantly taking from your partner. It’s a relationship that is not about giving at all, which is not good for anyone. This is a relationship that you need to get out of as soon as you can, otherwise you could lose yourself completely!
2. THE ON AND OFF AGAIN
The on again and off again relationship is one of those that is really hard to be in, because you never, ever know where you stand in this type of relationship. If you are in an on again, off again relationship, get off the carousal and really see if you can figure out if your boyfriend or girlfriend can commit to you completely.
3. PLAYER COUPLES
Ah, this has to be one of the worst types of relationships out there, as it is full of cheating. Believe it or not, there are a lot of couples out there that cheat on each other – but are still in a relationship with one another. Why? Well, it’s unclear, but they have gotten really sneaky at hiding the fact that they are cheating on each other really well.
4. CLINGY COUPLES
These are the couples that can’t get enough of each other, that have to do everything together and they almost come as a pair, instead of individual people. They hardly ever use the term ‘I’ and instead, it’s all about the ‘we’. This is the type of relationship that could be happy, but there really is no independence in their relationship at all, which can be damaging if they do happen to break up.
5. TOO MUCH DRAMA
Oh, the drama in this type of relationship. This is a relationship that you just wish that they would break up, because they fight about every single thing, no matter what it is. They also don’t care who is there, because why would they? It’s their relationship and you are just living near it.
6. THE DOMINATING RELATIONSHIP
This relationship is all about who is the most dominating and who is the most controlling. It’s a power-struggle relationship, where both of the people are really trying to figure out who has the most power and who is going to tell the other person what to do. It’s a tough relationship to be in – all of the time.
7. THE ‘COMFORTABLE’ RELATIONSHIP
Finally, this is a relationship that a ton of people fall right into. It’s a relationship that is built around comfort, not necessarily love or need. It’s a relationship that isn’t necessarily bad, but it’s just contentment and settling and who wants that? Don’t you want a relationship that is packed full of love and want?
If I have sex, I will sing about it”, Gospel musician, Maheeda
When Maheeda made it known last year that she had given her life to Christ, people received the news like doubting Thomas. It was felt to be her latest strategy to market her brand to real stardom.
Her conversion was really doubted by everyone because of her past life, as at then, which was heavily characterized by her uploading seminude pictures of herself onto the internet.
The said pictures were so racy that they went viral immediately and she became an overnight sensation. Now, from every indication, the Oko Yanpia singer who became a gospel musician when she became born again, is no longer born again.
To use the proper expression, she has backslided. She has returned to her old ways of posting vulgar pictures, and videos as well this time, of herself on the internet.
She quietly returned to her old ways over a month ago and the public is just catching on now gradually.
One of her fans who caught on early enough however challenged her subtly way back on August 9th. With the Twitter handle, @adeyinkailesanm, he asked her if it was true that she was into gospel music. Maheeda’s answer was definitely not representative of a gospel musician.
“My music is based on life. If I have sex, I will sing about it,” she responded.
When reporters called her on the phone, her phone didn’t connect. A source close to her then told NE that it was likely she was out of the country, unless she had returned codedly
Republicans see shutdown fight shift away from 'Obamacare'
Without question, a repeal or delay of the law known as "Obamacare" remains a top priority for Republican lawmakers, who for weeks have insisted on making any bill that funds government contingent on rolling back President Barack Obama's signature domestic achievement.
But a handful of Tea Party-supported conservatives have publicly backed off that fight, one which caused deep rifts within the Republican Party and led to some very public sniping among Republicans on the Senate floor.
With the shutdown battle being subsumed by debate over the need to raise the debt ceiling in the next two weeks, they said the focus needs to shift to strictly fiscal issues.
"I won't be happy with that but I recognize the writing on the wall," congressman Doug Lamborn told reporters during a rare weekend session for the House of Representatives.
"We've tried a lot of things, and maybe used every arrow in our quiver against Obamacare. It has not been successful, so I think we do have to move on to the larger issues of the debt ceiling and the overall budget."
That is no small admission from the man National Journal named in 2010 as the most conservative member of the House.
He was joined by congressman Dennis Ross, another favorite of the anti-tax, pro-small-government Tea Party movement.
"Pride, I think, has got to be swallowed here, probably on both sides," Ross said.
"We're so close to the debt ceiling that I think the two will continue to be combined as we go forward."
The US Treasury says it will run out of money to pay creditors on October 17, triggering a potentially calamitous default unless Congress votes to raise the $16.7 trillion debt ceiling.
Despite the approaching crisis, Republican leadership suggested Saturday that "Obamacare" remained the lynchpin in the party's strategy.
"The Republican position has continued to be, no special treatment under the law, no special treatment under Obamacare," number two House Republican Eric Cantor said.
The White House has held firm that it will accept no changes to the Affordable Care Act, and Ross appeared frustrated with his party's failure to adapt to the political reality that linking Obamacare with the funding of government would be a non-starter.
"I think expectations were built up to a level that could not be delivered," he said.
Some conservatives were refusing to budge.
"We have to get something on Obamacare," congressman Jim Jordan told Bloomberg TV on Friday.
"If you want to get this country on a fiscal path to balance, you can not let an entitlement of this size that will truly bankrupt the country and, more importantly, one that's not going to help Americans with their health care. You can't let this happen."
The Tea Party flank has been criticized by Democrats like Senate Majority Harry Reid as legislative "anarchists" gunning for a shutdown.
"We are not a bunch of hard-headed fools," said Republican congressman Blake Farenthold.
"If we can come up with ways to fix the economy and get the same bang for the buck you would get with Obamacare, let's do it," he added, saying he envisioned negotiations on tax and entitlement reform in the debt limit fight.
"The Obamacare battle I think will live to be fought another day."
Republicans and senior aides say they want to extract some concessions for raising the debt ceiling, such as matching the debt ceiling hike with dollar-for-dollar reductions in federal spending.
"Not a blank check to the president. That's not in the cards," Lamborn warned.
As Americans steam over Congress's inability to keep government open, some Republicans were seeking an escape hatch, to the point of even bucking leadership.
Two-term congressman Scott Rigell told AFP he wanted to see Republican "individual members who perhaps are not in leadership, to identify in advance some solution set" that could draw enough bipartisan support for reopening government and raising the debt ceiling.
"If that comes from leadership, wonderful. If it comes from more grass roots, that may be needed."
Warriors drop preseason opener to Lakers 104-95
Andre Iguodala scored 15 points, grabbed three rebounds and had two steals in his first game as a Warrior. (USA TODAY IMAGES)
ONTARIO, Calif. -- Xavier Henry and his fellow Lakers newcomers realize they've got a chance to take charge while Los Angeles' veteran stars take it easy this month.
Henry scored 29 points, Nick Young added 17 and the Lakers earned their first preseason victory in nearly three years, 104-95 over the Golden State Warriors on Saturday night.
Chris Kaman had 10 points and 10 rebounds for the Lakers, who had lost 10 straight exhibition games, including all eight last season. Los Angeles hadn't won a preseason game since Oct. 22, 2010, also in Ontario against the Warriors - not that coach Mike D'Antoni thought the mark had anything to do with his revamped club.
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